How to get rid of the routine in the bedroom?

How to get rid of the routine in the bedroom?

Sylvia is the author of this article Murawska


                        Everyone, you will also want to make his sex life was always full of excitement and inspiration. The butterflies in my stomach and legs trembling, when a loved one passes by, kissing passionately without any occasion or suddenly begins to stroke his neck and move you into another world, full of delight and desire - is a wonderful feeling ...However, with increasing length of the marriage, the important duties and affairs of everyday life often push amorous dalliance into the background, making the fact that most of us have sex less and less time and begins to cultivate it mechanically as brushing your teeth - in the same place, at this same time, which is usually in the evening before falling asleep. After some time on the transfer of eroticism to the bedroom with sadness we find that the sexual life in our marriage is filled with boredom and dream, to once again was in the beginning of our relationship with a partner. So hot!What to do to restore the old fire? How to make yourself want to start again as much as before? The answer is simple. Of course - do not stop dreaming and start working on it, harnessing to this work as a partner. Indeed, according to Alexander Berger, a German journalist, author of "perfect lover" - a successful love relationship is not based on the case - both partners must actively participate in it. Hence, if the wind blew your relationship erotic boredom and routine prevailed in it, it's time to change the san thing.If you want to enjoy intimacy, desire to continue as a hungry young men to enjoy sex, you have to jointly work on this, that your sex life and love the game took on again blushes and gone beyond the bedroom and common schemes. You have to show as in the past have more sensitivity and a full day, including when you are at work, not just when you lie down to sleep tired. Time to start again mutually inspire, excite, provoke - as in the past, when even innocent inflicting sensitivity to each other no matter what time of day ended with a passionate sex. You do not know how? Then this guide is to assist you in this.Here are 11 rules, the observance of which will make the link even the most jaded lovers together again become blush. Follow though to a part of them, and joy, passion and desire that you feel - you will quickly overcome the routine and ensure that they shall no longer oneself comfortable in your life.11 conditions for a successful connection the eroticFirst First bedroom is for sleeping. Sex in it can be successful, but only if this is not unique and strategic location for your loving pleasure. Think of when exactly it happened, that your life erotically moved from the bench in the park, or the kitchen table to the bed and think about whether you want it forever remains. The wonderful comfortable bed, a beautifully decorated bedroom, sooner or later will blow boredom!Second Starting in the company of a partner from the house, to prove to him from time to time that you are a master outdoorseksu. Do you remember how much excitement caused you to have sex, to which there have in nature or in public places? Most couples have an erotic account of his memories of love crazy stocks, which have occurred in male and female toilets, changing room, the shopping, the beach or seaside clearing in the forest. It is not worth to live the same memories. Sex outside the home is not reserved only for teenagers, winning his first experience! Try it again, and you feel great.Third Every now and plan a day or evening sex. It is said that sex should be spontaneous. But it will inspire and warm even when deliberately agreed upon with your partner, that once or twice a month, one of you will plan a secret from the second scenario of a hot day or evening, full of sex, which is jointly being met. The principle is simple - do not have to sing all day (unless you want counsel and the date you want to clear it), but for the entire duration of the scenario to be very, very coolest, wet and hot.The pursuit of this idea in life, and even planning the same day or the evening of sex, it will be exciting for you both.4th Kiss your partner as often as possible. Let your kisses are real art. Customize your perfected them and spare them not himself, neither at home nor outside the house.Kissing lips, tongue, teeth bite into. Suck, bite, Musk. Gently and lovingly, passionately, wildly and greedily.5th Enjoy a partner with food. He proves that food can be mega exciting. In fact, nothing tastes as great as sex - say the true gourmets. And if they try to prepare a meal together with your partner moaning with lust? Jedcie together from time to time, dishes prepared with a view of sex, of course, those that you do together when such play by (or on) the kitchen table.6th Talk to sexy and leave messages. The word erotic offensive. This is part of the game, which is to move the imagination, arouse desire and expectation of a love feast.Use so from time to time, love, full of ambiguities of language. Leave your partner hot teaser, when you leave the house, send him from time to time texting passionate, grown from the phone sex when you're standing in a traffic jam ...7th Become an exhibitionist, do not be afraid to fantasize and dream out loud. Let each of you will come face to face with their sexuality. This is an important step towards obtaining a deeper realization of the pleasures and desires. Remember that sexual fantasies on both women and men. Open to them. Open yourselves to each other and stop doing them a taboo subject. Declare each other's fantasies, and those that you want - just do it. Not all yet must remain a dream.8th Take note that even the homework and chores are often exciting. Together they performed housework and chores quite often allow you to feel that it takes very little to the wild madness of a dip in the newly washed floor or hurt the knee to the blood on a clean carpet.9th Have fun with your partner art - it can be extremely inspiring. If you belong to people passionate about art, try to find it a bit of erotica. The common reading erotic stories, viewing photos, paintings of the acts, or films for many couples is an incentive to have fun. And if they try to repeat what was happening on the screen, or add the rest of the hot stories?10th Take care of it, together with a partner to grow spiritually and sexually. Are you and your partner will surely already know all about sex? Is all that fascinating, exciting already try? A Kama Sutra or Tantric sex too? If not - it's time to spare a pleasant word, following the advice champions from the East.11th Search for ways to partner to surprise and to incite lust in him. To wind was not due to boredom, constantly search for ways to excite your partner. Sometimes, just for this innocent text message such as "at home waiting for you hot surprise" sent to work at another time massage, a relaxing change in the erotic, and yet another unannounced visit to the bathroom when a beloved individual takes a shower ... in other words - let you add the ingenuity and the power of desire is sure to be with you!